Happy last week of 2020!
TBH, I’m mentally preparing for another year of lockdowns. My townhouse is stocked with a month’s worth of non-perishables and TP. Back in March, I discovered just how unprepared for a pandemic I was. I could still get to the store, but I saw the importance of having emergency supplies.
Including chocolate and ink refills for my Swarovski pen.
What I would regret
2020 began rather rocky for me. Even before the pandemic hit Canada. I wasn’t sure if I could devote enough time and energy to building my childfree lifestyle brand. I wanted to, but sometimes real life rears its ugly head. My mentality is “all or nothing.”
And then the world shut down.
I took that as a sign to forget the “what ifs” and go all in. When it comes to living childfree, I KNOW I would have the regret of remaining silent about it. The goal I set my sights on this year was to be strong and steady in vocalizing my choice.
And to allow ideas and opportunities to appear that would support my efforts.
I didn’t say “yes” to everything that came my way this year. But when I found myself on the volunteer committee for the newly announced 2021 Childfree Conference, I stuck around.
When an opportunity aligns with your vision, grab it even if you’re unsure how it will unfold.
The upside of 2020
As bizarre as 2020 was, I’d like to acknowledge all the ways this year was personally satisfying:
I always had the perfect excuse to stay home.
The lake cabin I like to use was available all summer since no one was travelling.
Highways were quiet for summer road trips.
I got to spend all my time creating childfree content.
Money set aside for travel went towards upgrading electronics. I’m in love with my iPad Pro and Yeti X podcast mic!
I finally watched the entire series of Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
The BLM movement forced me to speak out about my struggles with being biracial.
I felt free to focus on meaningful projects.
What were some of the upsides to 2020 for you? Feel free to comment below or email me — info at lenora faye dot com
Childfree Pick-of-the-Week
“Childfree Family is the first micro-social network of its kind. It was developed by childfree people for childfree people, with a goal to bring our diverse community together.” —Founder Cody Hetzel
It’s completely free to set up a profile and participate in forums! The site also includes an extensive list of CF resources.
Final Thoughts
I have this theory that how you spend New Year’s Eve sets the tone for the next year. I’ll give personal examples in next week’s newsletter. This NYE, I’ll be at home, with one friend visiting, (this is OK as per my local government), indulging in fine food and drinking a lot of mineral water.
To feel at peace with what is and be open-minded to greater experiences. This is the tone I want for 2021.
Wishing you a “thank goodness this year is over” and a better 2021!
Until next time,
LeNora Faye
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